before starting the akad nikah ceremony, the tok kadi asked the groom this question.
"so, kenapa anda nak berkahwin?"
i can imagine the guy's facial expression, when being caught off-guard by tok kadi.
so, i guess it seems natural to raise that question, when suddenly the kahwin thing was discussed during our non-work discussion via emails.
some, playing the role as the devil's advocate said, "sebab nak halalkan seks". they gave points, points that were taught to us during our schooling days during kelas Pendidikan Islam.
jatuh hukum wajib untuk berkahwin sekiranya tidak mampu menahan diri dan berkemampuan.
sunat hukumnya bagi mereka yang berkemampuan, dan masih mampu menahan diri.
however, most of us believes, it is more than that. marriage is more than menghalalkan seks.
but really, should one fine day, a tuk kadi OR your parents OR your grandparents OR your future in-laws ask you that question, what would you say?
"jadi, kenapa saudara mahu berkahwin?"
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sbb aku nk tgk cite tamil ngn laki aku, pas tu tensyen same2. haha. bole x?
awat tgk citer tamil, pastu tensyen? sah ko tak penah layan cerita tamil.. biasanya after cerita tamil, penonton akan gembira kerana kebenaran tetap menang walaupun penuh ranjau sepanjang liku perjuangan
hey, aku ni peminat cite tamil okeh. tiap2 ari ahad kol 12.30 aku msti tecacak dpn tv2 tgk cite tamil okeh. tensyen la beb, sbb feeling cite tu. kan cite tamil cite die penuh feel. ko la sah x tgk cite tamil. haha
saya nak kahwin sebab saya sayang sangat kat si dia. dan saya dah mampu nak kahwin. hahahaha.
tantan, aku layan yg ada rajanikanth je. superstar tu!!
mangi, hahaha..hang tinggal satu lagi, "sebab dah jatuh hukum wajib saya kawin ni tok!"
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