on the way back from pangkor

there were silence in the car, so i assumed that the passengers were sleeping. then suddenly hunny asked me,

"bet, kenapa you broke off with your girlfriend?"

and i told her why. which for sure i won't post it here. and throughout me telling her why, again, she asked me another question.

"do you miss her?

shoot.

then she gave a sisterly advice.

"people evolved from being undergraduates to working adults. these two totally different worlds provide us with different environment. and that's why, you can see those lovely couples back in university, when they entered the working world, the inevitable happened. they broke-up"

"people evolves in different speed. sometimes, you may outgrow your partner, and vice-versa. this indifference, from the priorities in life, targets, see things in future, will result in both of you being incompatible to each other, resulting in frictions that lead to separation."

"time change people. don't be afraid if who you are now is totally different from who you were years ago. you might be someone else in years to come. learn from the experience. enrich your life"

"look around and find someone who will grow and evolve together with you."